make the effort

when your invited to do things or to go to events with people try your best to go and dont go back on your word if you say youll go then go. people will remember that you made the effort to come see them and that you cared. Its terrifying to go and see people all the time and always have your best face on but i think its good for you. i personally have a terrible habit of ditching people who are close to me for other people whom arent as close. its not that i dont like them its just i know whats going to happen when i hang out with the same people all the time. we get tired of each other. all of our quirks and odd mannerisms begin to become more of annoyances than cute. there are some people who can hang out with the same person all the time but i feel like they need a common goal to work on together this is how people can be married i believe. im getting off track so people will remember that you came to see them for their birthday or going away party or their house warming party any sort of gathering people remember it you dont have to do anything spectacular when you are there. just be yourself. the reason that this is a good idea to do is to have these people around when you need them they wont forget you or disregard you. they will be there for you one day when you have a birthday or anything like that hopefully they make the same choice to come and see you.